I live in New York City, and right now the College Music Journal – simply, CMJ – music festival is in full throttle. This festival gives the stage to “imminent breakouts and moder-day heroes” and features, this year, 1,100 bands, according to the Times.
And yet, I don’t plan on attending a single show, conference, panel discussion, or party. Why? Well, I can blame reason #1 firmly on the shoulders of my ten-month-old son. If I could take him to some CMJ shows, I could – but I really fear that he is still too young. I’m sure he’d just try and stand on everything anyhow, and try to stick all of the cable running from guitar amps and sound systems into his mouth – his oral fetish is ongoing – and that just wouldn’t be right.
I’m hoping one day that, if he does get interested in music, that he does play CMJ, which would be a big thrill for me. Of course, as much as I’d like to gently guide him in the direction of music, there is no telling what will interest him as he gets older. I mean, CMJ is full of hundreds of bands with thousands of musicians and their various hangers-on, and how did they all go from babbling, sleep-deprived babies to being musicians at CMJ? Some of them – like I did – came to music independently of parental intervention, though with a healthy push from my cousin Matt, who insisted I hear Alice Cooper’s Greatest Hits from which I can still strum all the chords to School’s Out and I’m Eighteen (I recommend you check out this super-raw performance from 1972, fyi. Come to think of it, I think Matt was 18 at the time – probably, 10 years my senior.
Others – I was reading about Neneh Cherry recently, and her stepfather being Don Cherry, how could she not be a musician – find music through pedigree. Still others do it as a rebellion, and others by accident, where music kind of falls into their life from the margins but soon becomes the central part of their life.
Where will my little guy fall? Music is without a doubt the most exhilarating thing to happen to me in my short life, and I mean both playing it and listening to it. Will this truism grip my son as well? Will be perform at the Underage Festival in London – restricted to kids 14-18 – or even want to attend? Curious questions.
I’m going to set a goal, then, of trying to hit the festival next year. I’ll do it for him.